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The process of dying can be a precious time for connecting and showing love. It shouldn’t be overshadowed by logistics and key decisions….I wished that my father had given this gift to me and to my stepmother

Cianna Stewart

A Gift of Love: Cianna Stewart shares ‘How to Make Your Death Kinder to Those You Love’ in this article extract. Her father died suddenly, leaving no will, or wishes regarding his estate or distribution of assets and possessions. In doing so, he left an enormous burden to his wife and daughter. They had to face it alone, while deep in grief themselves. You can read the full article here. 

The situation becomes even more complicated when someone dies as an expat. The language, legal system, and paperwork can be totally unfamiliar to loved ones left behind.

As Cianna indicates, time becomes very precious after a terminal diagnosis. That time should not be spent worrying about affairs that have not been put in order. Read our guidance and checklist. Putting your affairs in order today is the greatest gift you can give to your loved ones — the gift of love

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